I recently started to babysit my friends’ little girl, Leyla, during the day. Its kind of great because it gives me an opportunity to watch all my favorite Disney Movies that I haven’t seen for so many years.
Watching these fun movies brings me back and reminds me of wonderful times in my life growing up and having fun with my cousins and sisters.
The other day, we watched Aladdin.
As Aladdin and Jasmin began their magic carpet ride I thought back to the dance we made up to the song, “A Whole New World.” We pulled the stools out of the kitchen and placed a rug across it. I was Aladdin and my cousin Eleena was Jasmin. Melanie and Heather put on their matching green swimming suits and danced around the magic carpet while Eleena and I sang along with the CD.
We had so much fun.
We also had dances to songs from Beauty and the Beast, The Lion King, The Little Mermaid and so many others.
Some of my favorite memories of my childhood are with my cousins. I was lucky enough to grow up with so many cousins, and so many so close to my age. We were able to spend so much of our summers together and so many holidays. For family reunions we would make up plays and cast all the younger children in our productions. We would have scripts, costumes and often musical numbers.
One year, the play was a pioneer theme. Eleena did a great job with the script. It was a highlight of the family reunion.
We also made up songs about each other. The year Melanie got a perm and we made up “Mophead McCracken” was a classic. It was to the tune of “Cruella DeVil.”
Until I was in jr. high, I can’t remember a New Year’s Eve that doesn’t include my cousins. One year we spent almost the whole night playing one of the versions of Donkey Kong on the Super Nintendo (the level in the mine car). Another year, (the year of the flu) we watched the scene in Toy Story where the shark jumped out of the toy box wearing Woody’s hat and said, “I’m Woody! Howdy, Howdy, Howdy!” over and over again. We were all sick with the flu, we were a little bit crazy that year.
Even during college we had wonderful times together. My freshman year, Eleena, Ashley and I were all at BYU-I. We went up the the broken Teton Dam and visited and old house in the woods, Wolfman’s Cabin. It was there, that I first punched a person in the face. Great story; I’ll save it for another post.
We’ve laughed together, cried together and even laughed until we cried (like the night we tried to explain to Melanie and Heather about how Brandon thought Grandma died by choking on a chicken bone…). And although as we have gotten older and and don’t see each other as often my cousins will always be some of my best friends and my favorite people in the world. They have been there for me when things have been bad and I hope they know that if they ever need someone I will ALWAYS be there for them if they need me.
I subscribe to so many different blogs and things through my google reader and email newsletters. As I read through my reader items and emails, I use www.delicious.com to bookmark and keep all the things that I like and want to look at again later. I found a way that I can put it on my blog and kind of like it. I made it a page, so if you are bored and want to see some of the things that I’ve been looking at and loving online lately just click on “link love” in the pages list on my blog (right now it’s in the top right hand corner, but that may change if I change my theme). Or you can visit my delicious page.
Looking through all my saved bookmarks though, I just wish that real life could be as cute as the world seems online.
The newest addition to our family, James Edward Phelps, made his way into the world April 23, 2010. He was born at 10:45 a.m. weighing 6lb 10oz and was 18 inches long. And we are so excited to have him here.
My little alien
Our Story:
As I mentioned in my last post, the doctor was getting worried about my blood pressure, so I was on bed rest for about a week. During that time, I was in and out of the doctor’s office and hospital being monitored to make sure that my blood pressure wasn’t going to elevate more and develop into anything more serious.
(This is going to be long… but you are reading my blog, so obviously you want to hear all about my story. And, I have to have a record of it lest I forget)
Thursday night, I went to bed looking forward to another exciting day of bed rest. I woke up around 1:30 with a pretty painful contraction. I walked around for a minute and got back into bed and went to sleep. Around 2:30 I woke up again with another contraction. After it was over, I tried to go back to sleep only to be stopped by continuing contractions.
Inside, I think I knew that he was coming and I could only think, “No, you can’t come today, this is the only day that mom can’t come to the hospital.” (She had a field trip with her students.) But the contractions kept coming and there was nothing I could do. I wondered around the bedroom trying anything to make myself more comfortable though the pain. I started timing, and the contractions were getting closer and closer.
Around 3:45, I woke up Bryan telling him that he needed to wake up now, I think I’m having this baby. It took him a little bit and a couple of poking, but he finally woke up. I wondered around the bedroom some more and he rubbed my back through a couple of contractions, before we decided to call my mom. My contractions were a little different than the doctor and my mom had said they would feel, so I wasn’t totally sure if I was actually having real contractions. And after being in and out of the hospital the last two weeks, the last thing I wanted to do was go over there only to be sent home.
I called my mom knowing that at 4 a.m. it would be hard to get her on the phone. I heard her on the other line pick up her phone, and then close it. “Great, she thinks I’m her alarm,” I thought. “Mom, Mom, this isn’t your alarm; answer your phone. I’m on the phone; answer the phone.” (She answered her phone thinking it was her alarm, then set it back on her nightstand. I knew that if I just talked loud enough into the phone, she’d finally answer.)
After chatting for a few moments we concluded we should go to the hospital. So I brushed my teeth and brushed my hair (a little earlier, while wondering around my room in pain, I had thought about getting in the shower, and briefly considered it again, but decided against it). Bryan got dressed, we let the dog out and away we went.
We arrived at the hospital around 4:30. Bryan dropped me off at the front door and went to park the car. I walked in and the security guard offered me a wheel chair. In my head I laughed a little bit thinking about all the television shows I had seen with the woman freaking out in the lobby of the hospital, doing her labor breathing as they wheel her up to the delivery room in a wheel chair. As I wasn’t freaking out, and could still waddle, I declined the wheel chair knowing that Bryan would catch up with my by time I made it to the elevators — He did, because I had to stop walking half way to the elevators with another contraction.
We got up to labor and delivery and were hurried into a room to be monitored. I was dilated to a 3 and things were looking good to have the baby. We sat and waited an hour watching the contractions on the monitor, well Bryan watched the contractions on the monitor with lots of helpful words of encouragement like, “Oh, that was a good one” and “that one was bigger than the last one” or “it will be cool when you can get four peaks on the screen at the same time.”
I can’t really imagine being the husband just watching your wife go through labor. I know he wanted to help me and somehow make the pain go away, but he couldn’t do anything and just had to sit there and watch as I mumbled to myself, “no, no, no. I don’t want to do this” or “I can’t do this; I can’t do this; I can’t do this” or “I changed my mind.”
After they watched us for an hour, my contractions continued to get closer together and more painful and I was dilated to a 4 — so they decided to officially admit us.
They moved us into a delivery room and started to hook me up to more monitors. The nurse was wonderful and did everything she could to make me comfortable. Then, she asked the golden question, “are you ready for your epidural?”
Yes, yes I was.
They hooked me up to an IV and showed Bryan some things he could do until the epidural arrived to help lessen the pain of the contractions. The nurse told me we were very lucky, because we were able to catch the anesthesiologist before he was going to be busy for 2 hours helping with a c-section.
Dan, the anesthesiologist, came in and they told Bryan he had to sit down in the chair right in front of me and hold my hand. “We can’t have you standing up and hitting the floor during this,” they said. Then they told us about more than one dad who saw the needle and passed out.
The epidural was heaven. It was kind of funny though, because it worked first on my one side of my body and not the other, so I could feel the left side, but not the right. It trickled to the right side, but I felt a little lopsided for a little bit.
Through this whole process they had closely been monitoring my blood pressure and just after I received the epidural, the doctor came in and decided he was a little worried about my blood pressure still and didn’t want anything to happen later during labor and put me on an IV of magnesium. This added a little bit of drama to the whole situation and tons more wires, tubes and monitors attached to my body. At one point during labor, I had 9 different things attached to me. I felt a little bit like the back of my computer tower at work with everything attached to me and connecting me to so many different things.
After I received my epidural, everything seems to move into hyper-speed. My parents showed up and so did Bryan’s parents. I was dialated to a 6 and even though I couldn’t feel any thing but pressure, my contractions were consistent and from the look of the spikes on the screen, would have been pretty painful (thank goodness for modern medicine).
The thing that I thought was so amazing about labor was how instinctive everything seemed to be. It was as if my body knew what it needed to do and although the monitors were telling me what should happen, I knew myself.
After kicking everyone out of the room except the nurse, Bryan and my mom I knew it was time to push. I told the nurse, I was ready and I needed to push. She told me just to hang on for a few seconds and then we could push. She check and I was completely dialated and ready to go. She said I could start pushing and explained to me what I needed to do. She went and got to the doctor and we were on our way.
After about an hour of pushing, at 10:45 a.m. he was here. Over my stomach, after he arrived, I could see little hands and fingers moving — it was a baby. Then I heard him cry and I knew — it was MY baby.
My Baby
Yes, I cried.
They were a little worried about his breathing so after cleaning him up a little bit, measuring and weighing him, he and Bryan went downstairs to make sure he was okay.
And the nurse brought me a Mr. Pibb and cookies. Ahhh — Wonderful.
It was an amazing day. Here’s more pictures:
Baby and Mommy
Baby Toes
Family Photo
Grandma and Baby James
Stretching
So Tiny
Bryan's Best Birthday
The day we came home from the hospital was Bryan’s 26th birthday. He was a little sad James didn’t wait just a few more days to share a birthday with him, but it was still Bryan’s best birthday present ever. We had a small celebration for Bryan that night with 24 candles and 2 matches. He’s a wonderful dad. One of my absolute favorite things about becoming a mom is watching Bryan become a dad. He’s so cute with James. Bryan made sure and introduced James to Jazz basketball the first night he was here with us. It was so cute.
Because it has taken me so long to record the events of that wonderful day, so much seems to have happened already since then. So I’ll leave you with a video. Our baby has the most amazing neck strength already. On Saturday, at 8 days old he was enjoying “tummy time” with Bryan at my parents house and wanted to get a better look at the world.
