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Just One More Year

It is crazy to me to think that just a year ago we said good bye to my little brother.

Joseph and Mom

Joseph and Mom

And crazy to think that all this time he’s been in PERU! Weird.

Peru logoAnd has seen awesome places like this:

Peru Postcard[Peru images from here] [because Peru has a new logo and I think its neat]

But most importantly, that he’s been serving the wonderful people of Peru and learning and growing so much!

Elder McCracken and Elvis

Elder McCracken and Elvis

Peru2

Elder McCracken and Some Members in Puno

I’m so proud of my little brother and am so excited to see him again, in just one short year!

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Good-bye 2010 : Hello 2011

2010 was a really great year for us, the Phelps family. We made a lot of huge changes and had some wonderfully memorable moments.

At the beginning of the year, I was pregnant, and huge and uncomfortable.

Finding a comfortable way to sit at work for eight hours a day really brought out the creativity in me… In the picture above, please note, there are two different chairs in my cubical (I had two others in the empty cubical next to me that I swapped with too), there is a can of Easy Cheese on the floor next to me (no wonder I gained so much weight), I am sitting on the floor, propped up by a padded stool, my shoes are on the floor next to the Easy Cheese, and yes, that is a life vest (who doesn’t have life vests in their cubicles at work?).

We traveled to California to get family pictures taken before Joseph left.

The happy McFamily clan…

My favorite little brother, joined the ranks of missionaries in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. He left to go serve and teach the people in Cusco, Peru on March 19.

Our Sweet Baby James joined our family in April. Becoming the 3rd member of our Phelps family; the 12th to the Sue and Sherm Phelps family (we added 11th a few months before, with cute Maddy and 13th three months later with Aubrey); the 11th to the Ed and Kenna McCracken Family; and the 81st to the Kent and LouJean Walker family.

He also completed five generations…

Bottom from Left to Right: James Edward Phelps, Afton Bullock, Katie Phelps. Top from Left to Right: Kent S. Walker, Kenna L. McCraken. This is my mom’s dad, and his mom.

Then when James was two weeks old, we packed up and moved.

We actually closed on the house three days before James was born while I was on bed rest (the people were so nice and came and let us sign all the documents at our house, so I could stay in bed, well, close to the bed), received the keys the day before James was born (and I wanted to go walk through our house with our own set of keys and kind of broke the bed rest… James decided to come later that night. I wonder if I pushed myself into labor?)

Moving with a 2-week-old really wasn’t that bad. I didn’t really have to do anything. ha ha ha!

We were called to be nursery workers in our new ward.

I quit my job of three years at Henry Schein Practice Solutions and said good-bye to my cubical friend, BJ for the last time.

He was our department dummy. Now I stay home and play with James all day. In Aug. I also began babysitting my friend, Ian’s, little girl, Leyla.

Bryan quit his job at OrangeSoda and started a new job at MonaVie.

We sadly said good-bye to Teddy.

After moving to a house without grass and no fence, Teddy started having a lot of accidents and running away a lot. We realized he deserved something better and we found it for him. A cute family from Payson had one Shiz-tsu and wanted another one to be their 11-year-old son’s dog. They wanted a dog that their son could play with and sleep with and call his own. They had a big fenced yard with lots of grass and had a doggie door so Teddy could come and go as he pleased. I cried and cried. I still miss him sometimes. But I know he’s much happier with a yard and grass.

James was a tiger for Halloween.

And one time when we went to show off his cute costume, I forgot the jacket. The second time he wore it, he had a blow-out all over it. So he didn’t really do a lot of Halloween celebrating in it, but he sure looked cute.

James loved Thanksgiving because of all the mashed potatoes and small pieces of ham he got.

We celebrated our first Christmas as a family and it was wonderful.

2010 was a really great year.

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Holiday, oh Holiday

(Mel, can you hear that song in your head?)

Our holidays were wonderful! How were yours?

We began the holidays by taking a quick trip to California to visit my brother. James and I made the trip with my parents and wee sis.

James was a trooper for his first looong drive

He only had one freak out. We left a few days before Christmas, stayed a day, and came back. Remember the big rain storms in southern CA and southern UT? Yeah, we drove through those.

Before we left, we took out one of the captains chairs in my parents mini-van so there was only one and the back bench, giving James a little bit of crawling room when we were stopped. It was a wonderful idea. Because of the rain and the cold, I didn’t brave the weather to take him into gross gas stations, so he just chilled in the car, crawling around while we took turns going inside. Thanks to Grandma, he even got chances to sit up front and play with buttons.

"Driving" the car was his favorite part of the trip.

(Don’t worry, the car was in park and the emergency break was on while he “drove.”) Notice the band-aid on his hand… two days before we left he pulled my straighten off the bathroom counter onto his hand. Luckily, it was in the process of cooling down, so the burn wasn’t as bad as it could have been (and it was a straightener and not a curling iron so it wasn’t as big of a burn). He also ran head first into the bed frame giving him the lovely line on his forehead that you can see in the top picture.

Begin side note:

This kid is into EVERYTHING and never sits still. He can open drawers, cupboards and his favorite thing in the world to play with are doors, swinging them back and forth. If he does ever push them all the way closed, he cries, because he toy doesn’t work any more. He tries to “walk” between his two standing toys, falling on his face. He attempted the stairs and tries to scale our entertainment center. Yesterday, I took something in the bedroom and came back and couldn’t find him anywhere… He’d made his way into the half bathroom and discovered the toilet paper. joy.

He's a little booger...

Needless to say, baby-proofing is in FULL SWING at our house. He finds things I never would have imagined.

End side note.

Back to our trip. We stayed with my brother, Rob and his beautiful wife, Ali. James is now afraid of Rob (I might be too if I met him in a dark alley). Due to the rain, and their flight to Australia we didn’t stay long and were back on the road in the torrential rain.

On the way home, we brought my brother’s three dogs. James LOVED them. They HATED James.

This was the closest they got to him

The car ride back was a little crowded with 4 adults, a baby and three dogs. Yes, they are small dogs, but they still got in the way. We even had a little diaper changing incident the ended with unpleasant stuff on Rachel’s pillow because the dogs were taking up all the floor space I needed to change a diaper.

On Christmas Eve, we joined my mom’s family for the traditional Food and Nativity night. The food was fabulous. The company was wonderful and James found something new to scale.

He might be Evel Knievell reincarnated. He has no sense of fear.

My grandma was able to join us (she’s been staying in the rest home while her broken leg heals, she’s almost ready to go home! Yay!), and read the nativity from the Bible. James got to be Baby Jesus this year and he even sat still longer than I thought he would.

The grandkids acting out the nativity

On the left, Rachel and Bree are the shepherds. Next, standing in the red is Emily as an angel and Abby as the star. Below the star we have Mary and Joseph, as portrayed by Andrew and Leah with Mary holding Baby Jesus. Above Mary and the baby are our wise men, Jared and Jessie. I think the 3rd wise man (Alyssa) decided to stay with her mom instead.

My grandma reading the story of Christ’s birth is one of my favorite memories of Christmas each year.

On Christmas morning, we woke up earlier than we wanted, our sweet baby decided to sleep from 9 until 12, then stay awake until 2:30, so 8 a.m. was EARLY. But it was worth it because we got to talk to JOSEPH, AKA Elder McCracken, in Peru.

Listening to Uncle Joe

(I realized that I didn’t get a picture of all of us listening, but you can see my dad in the background with the phone. We listened on speaker, while he held the phone close to a recorder.)

It was great to talk to him. He loves it there and is enjoying the people and the work. He described it as the happiest and saddest time of his life. The happiest because of how much his testimony is growing and the saddest because he sees the people and knows how much the Gospel could help them, but they aren’t willing to listen.

(I also realized that I didn’t take any pictures of the present opening. James loved it… mostly the wrapping paper.)

so excited

He was pretty stoked about getting his hands on his dad’s mini oreos. Santa didn’t bring him a lot of candy, just some fun things to chew on and one candy cane. He was in heaven.

The next day we got together for the Phelps’ Family party. The kids all got together and bought Bryan’s parents a new TV so it was pretty exciting to bring it in. It is a super thin LED, only 1.25 inches. It’s crazy the things they do with TVs now.

James got to play with his favorite cousins too.

"Friends, forever...Talkin' 'bout Friends"

(name that song…)

The next week was really relaxed. It was wonderful. Bryan was able to stay and hang out with us all week, so that was lovely. We played games with my family, we made a gingerbread train, pillow piles and we watched lots of movies.

Pillow Pile

New Year’s eve was pretty low key too. We stayed home, tried to get James back on a normal sleeping schedule, watched movies and went to bed.

It was a lovely end to a lovely year.

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What’s Goin’ On

Here are 10 things that have happened lately.

  1. Bryan got a new job – He no longer works for OrangeSoda. I was a little sad to see him leave OrangeSoda, it was a fun company and he enjoyed what he did. He now works for Monavie (they sell juice … I promise we won’t try to sell you any. He’s working with their websites). He was really excited about the change and enjoys his new job. Sometimes change is good.
  2. I got a new phone! Bryan’s new job gave him some money for a new phone so he upgraded his iPhone 3G to an iPhone 4, so he thought it would be good to upgrade my iPhone 3GS to an iPhone 4. Now we can do video calls with each other. It’s pretty entertaining.
  3. I celebrated my birthday… for a whole weekend. My birthday was on Sunday this year, so Friday we went to dinner with Bryan’s family (half of the family anyway. It was last minute so some of the family had plans). Then on Saturday we met my family and Rachel in Salt Lake for lunch and LOTS of shopping at Gateway. For my birthday Bryan decided it would be fun to get me lots of new clothes that better compliment my post-pregnancy body (I never realized how tight my shirts were until I was finished being pregnant and now have a little tummy. Not terribly flattering).
  4. Rachel got me a Pillow Pet for my birthday! It’s pretty awesome.
  5. I got a letter from Joseph. I miss my little brother, but I know he’s working so hard and being a great missionary. The people of Peru are pretty blessed to have someone so awesome with them. I’m glad to hear that he is able to speak Spanish well enough that he can express his personality. He’s a funny kid.

    Grandpa and James

  6. My Grandma Walker broke her leg. I got a phone call Friday before last from my mom letting me know that my grandma had fallen and shattered her femer. We went to the hospital to be with her and I saw the xray, there were a lot of little pieces of bone. They did surgery on it and put a plate in there to hold it all together. The doctor said the surgery went really well. So that’s good. She’ll have to stay in a nursing facility for a little while so they can help her do physical therapy and strengthen the leg. We’ve gone over and visited a lot. James likes to go on rides with my grandpa in the wheelchair.
  7. I left Baby James with someone other than my mom, Bryan’s mom or my mom’s friend (an adult) for the first time. I went to lunch with my aunts one day and left James with my cousins to babysit. Jackson and Keagan are 16 and 15 so I knew they would be fine and I knew we wouldn’t be gone very long, but I have to admit, it was a little bit weird. I didn’t freak out, it was just weird.
  8. James keeps getting faster and faster and better at crawling. He doesn’t always bury his head in the carpet to get from one place to ther other. He’s actually starting to lift up his head and use his arms. It’s a change to have to keep my eyes on him so much more often. Before he was mobile, I could do the dishes or read my google reader and look up and he’d be laying on the floor in the same place I put him playing with his toys. Now if I look away for too long, he’s made his way across the whole room. Luckily, we have the stairs already blocked off so Teddy can’t go anywhere, now I just have to get something to keep his little fingers from touching the fireplace when it’s on… he likes to make his way toward the fire, I think he likes the colors.
  9. James has decided that sleeping through the night is a bad idea. When it started to get colder at night, the amount of time James would sleep got shorter and shorter. I thought his jammies weren’t warm enough, so we bought him so warm jammies, but he still wakes up two or three times screaming. He flips to his tummy and runs out of room to flip back over to his side (he can only roll from his tummy to his back one way right now. He can flip either way to go from his back to his tummy, but isn’t as talented from his tummy to his back). It makes me tired.
  10. To begin my 27th year, I stubbed my toe. It was not pretty. I somehow stubbed it and made it bleed and it wouldn’t stop for so long. I couldn’t even figure out where it was bleeding from. It was strange. Then it was so swollen that I couldn’t get my shoe on for the rest of the day. I stayed home and watched Beauty and Beast. Turned out to be a good day.
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Words from the Field

Elder McCracken going to the MTC

I got a letter today from my little brother in Peru. I miss him, but I’m so happy that he is serving a mission. I bet he’s a great missionary.

He wrote the letter during General Conference weekend. He said that they can’t watch or listen to General Conference until the week after because Peru is getting ready to have an election and the law in Peru doesn’t allow people to gather together right before an election.

Here’s what he said about it:

This is conference weekend by the way. We have to wait till next week to watch it. I’m really bummed about that cuz shoot conference is like spiritual crack…

So there you have it. Words of wisdom from the mission field. I love to read his letters and hear about how much his testimony is growing, but also love to read things like this that show how much he’s still my little brother Joe.

I LOVE YOU ELDER JOE!

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I Miss Him

Joseph and Katie

Elder Joseph McCracken - Peru, Cusco Mission

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